Dear all,
Recently got together with a girl about 2-3mths back. Really different from all the 2 exes that I was with. But she's got an overwhelming distrust for me and Whatsapp is not helping at all due to its "Online" and "Last Seen Online" status updates.
She consistently thinks I'm lying to her either texting other people or texting other girls of which I'm not. Her insistence of me lying and distrusting me has come up practically every week. Every time I find myself having to defend myself because I'm not the type that likes being accused if I've not done something at all.
Any guys/girls experience the same thing?
Originally posted by Aztecgold:Her accusations (imho) aren't valid. I mean take 2 nights ago, I sent her a goodnight message at 2300, off my wifi and data to prevent any messages coming in etc. but guess what, she screenshot and sent me my last sent at like 2307 or something. How to proof to her that I'm not messing around?
Try calling her .. instead of texting.
Texting is not meant for real time communications. Whatsapp or any text services will occasionally have delay in relaying data/messages.
Pick up the phone.. say good night and be done.
Younger people like yourself. should be more tech savvy. You should have a better understanding on how the gadgets works and how it's suppose to make your life easier NOT harder.
Tell your family and friends.. if they needed immediate responds.. CALL .. if they just want to send FYI or chit chat, they can text or email .. will respond whenever you're able to.