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Topic started by Andylim348 on 14 Dec `12, 4:35AM:

Hello,

I am posting this under "Bar" because it says everything Adult should come here.

 

I hope readers can offer me different opinions and thought.s

 

I am a person whom have very little friends.

 

In fact, the only life-long circle of friends I have are a tight small mix that are usually like to go the sleazy bars and KTVs.

 

I am very upset because I no longer know what is right and wrong, and I feel that my ties with my friends are strained and I also feel very bullied

 

They tried to take me to Geylang, where there is this row of what was claimed to be "legal shophouses".

 

I had no idea. To be frank, I was very suprised to be taken to those shophouses, I really was not expecting it.

 

They claimed that they told me they were going there to walk around and see, and that I said I was okay with it.

 

But to be frank, when I said I was okay to walk around Geyland, I thought they meant the general area of Geyland, like the area that is more lively and public.

When I reach there, I was very surprised and refused to go in, while they went in, so I hang outside the area like a sore thumb.

 

My friends said that I made them feel like it's a waste of time and effort. and that they just wanted me to take a look, nothing more, and that they were quite upset that i behaved that way.

 

But the thing was, when they first proposed going there, they completely did not specify that they were going to that particular row of shophouses.

 

On another note, when I refused to go in, they turn black face and said I was not giving them "face".

 

But what has "face" got to do with it? 

 

Whether I want to enter or not is completely my own personal choice.

 

In the first place, I did not wanted to go there.

 

Secondly, they knew I did not wanted to go there but they weren't completely upfront with me and decided to give vague and ambigous answers.

 

I do feel very deceived and manipulated to visiting that area.

 

Thirdly, they acted like I was giving them a hrad time by not going in but it is my own choice not to go in.

 

Now they are claiming I am the one whom is behaving unreasonably.

 

I am already having a hard time and these people are just adding to my stress.

 

Can someone please advise, should I just completly sever ties with my friends?

 

If I really do that, I won't have any more friends.

Last reply by Super.kumantong on 01 Jan `13, 3:42AM:

"I am a person whom have very little friends." - You don't have to stick to any group of friends.

BE A MAN. Start walking Your own path and go out and meet new friends , without being needy. At the end of the day, You will walk alone again, feeling good even when being alone , and also able to mingle with different group of friends for different activities at different time.

When You can walk alone feeling good.. Soon, You will have people wanting to be with You and follow You and You take the lead.


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