Ok. I just wanted to start off by saying that i DO have friends. We all do have friends but my circle of friends is not that many. Less than 10 as I can say. After my secondary school years, I went to ITE and friends over there is just hi and bye sort of thing. So i visit this forum called sgcafe (how do i know about this forum? long story lol). During that year, it was so active and lots of outing as i can remember. I'm really happy to be part of this forum and i made friends there and it became quite close to me. So close that we make outings of our own and not posted it on forum. Two years passed by and slowly the people i knew drifted away .. as in they no longer meet each other. I only left with 3-4 people that i knew of and days passed by, we no longer meet each other because of NS and/or busy with other things.
So I moved here... sgforums. And to my luck, during that time i visited this place.. it was quite popular. Outings at few parts in this forum. I remembered join in two outings of this forum, I remember one with some guy named callan and bak la va. Then after that, i got quite busy with exams, work and then went to out of country. After i returned to singapore, I found it is quite late for me. As this forum getting quieter and quieter.. it kinda kills me inside. I tried to reach bak la va but she changed her hp i think because her line is no longer available.
Times passes by to this year, I heard about sgclub. I joined in and another luck for me, they made an outing and i got invited thru some random pm from one of the moderators. Then i've been thinking, i wanted to go but.... why am i like this? am i really this desparate to find friends? I mean... i do have one of my best friend but now he's in NS. I cant just only stick to him. I wanted to open wide of my social circle but is this really the way? I miss hanging out with people at sgcafe but we no longer meet each other. So im guessing im doing all these is because i miss having fun.
To be a MAN, You need to learn to able to walk alone and feel good about Yourself. And then meet up different group of people to enjoy different activities together.
Listen to this song and You will know what i mean: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ODnGz1hJJLM
Let me give You example:
I go riding mountain bike alone and feeling good. Then I meet new people at fishing jetty and become friends. And then ride bicycle alone again feeling good to other places and meet up diferent group of people, be it very young to very old and enjoy different activities at different places.